Followup with the Oncologist

I'm always nervous when I visit the Oncologist.  I had Cody and Mom with me today since I picked mom up yesterday so she could spend the holiday with us.  She and Cody waited in the waiting room while I went back to meet with the doctor.  I told her assistant what's been going on in the past 6 months.  I told her about my left rib cage and how once in a while it's tender and annoys me.  I also told her that I can't stop thinking about cancer, therefore I always worry that whatever is bothering me I automatically think it's cancer.  It sucks but that's the way it is for me now.  I also mentioned that I'm tired but I believe it's exhaustion and stress from everyday living.  You know, commuting to work, being a working mom, homework, sports, having a 7 year old, errands, cooking, cleaning.  The same ole same ole.  It's just so tiring that I really don't make time for myself.  She always tells me to take care of myself and I swear this year, that's my plan. 

The oncologist said I looked great and every time she says that I say in my head, every single time (well I looked great before I was diagnosed)  Anyway, she was pleased with my hair growth, my weight, the way I looked and especially that I am so far 3 years cancer free.  I asked her if 5 years was the magic number for Triple negative breast cancer and she said yes but 3 years is a wonderful sign.  Which of course made me super duper happy. 

She did ask about Virginia and I had to tell her that she passed away in August.  She asked me the type of cancer and the mutation and unfortunately I could not remember the mutation.  She referred me to a genetics counselor so I can discuss the mutation with her.  I feel that I should really learn Virginia's cancer better and understand what happened to her.  It still is such a shock to me that she is gone and I miss her so much.

Dr. Winkinson also requested I do an annual MRI since my breasts are dense.  I'm all for getting scans since early detection is the best chance of survival.

All in all, I had a very positive visit with the oncologist today so I have super happy right now.