HAPPY BIRTHDAY AUNT WENDY!!!
Saturday, August 23, 2014
Tuesday, August 19, 2014
OH NO WAY!
Not a good day at work today. I could not focus at all and when my boss called me on it, I yelled back, "I'm sorry, I'm mourning the death of my cousin!!!" No other comments were made.
How can someone be so inconsiderate?
I should have just taken the day off.
How can someone be so inconsiderate?
I should have just taken the day off.
Sunday, August 17, 2014
Saturday, August 16, 2014
High School Reunion
Dare I say how many years I've been out of high school??? Nope....I'll keep you guessing.
Well, initially a few months ago, I was excited about it. I thought, this time it's going to be at a bar, more laid back and fun so why not. Right?
Then Virginia's funeral was yesterday and it was a really tough day. After Ken and Cody left I got kind of in a funk and was super sad.
Around lunch, I got an email from my buddy Dave who encouraged me to go. I guess in a way, I thought it would be a good thing to get out of the house and be around a positive environment. So of course with terrible traffic on I-95 south bound it took me forever to get from point A to point B. But I did get there eventually. I met Dave at his parent's house, said hi to them as we headed out.
The reunion was fun and it was nice chatting with people that I haven't spoke to in ** years. Almost said it. :) I'm glad I went because it did lift my spirits and the best part is I got to spend some time with David. He's been my buddy since 9th grade and is always super supportive.
Of course driving home I got stuck in monster traffic. For some reason all lanes were shut down to one lane. Am I surprised? NO. Am I okay with it? NO. Do I have a choice in the matter? NO. Was I stuck in traffic for 1 1/2 hours to go about 10 miles if that? YES! Am I super mad? NO. Am I super tired? YES. Am I glad that my sister lives between my house and the reunion? YES! I pulled over and called it a night.
Well, initially a few months ago, I was excited about it. I thought, this time it's going to be at a bar, more laid back and fun so why not. Right?
Then Virginia's funeral was yesterday and it was a really tough day. After Ken and Cody left I got kind of in a funk and was super sad.
Around lunch, I got an email from my buddy Dave who encouraged me to go. I guess in a way, I thought it would be a good thing to get out of the house and be around a positive environment. So of course with terrible traffic on I-95 south bound it took me forever to get from point A to point B. But I did get there eventually. I met Dave at his parent's house, said hi to them as we headed out.
The reunion was fun and it was nice chatting with people that I haven't spoke to in ** years. Almost said it. :) I'm glad I went because it did lift my spirits and the best part is I got to spend some time with David. He's been my buddy since 9th grade and is always super supportive.
Of course driving home I got stuck in monster traffic. For some reason all lanes were shut down to one lane. Am I surprised? NO. Am I okay with it? NO. Do I have a choice in the matter? NO. Was I stuck in traffic for 1 1/2 hours to go about 10 miles if that? YES! Am I super mad? NO. Am I super tired? YES. Am I glad that my sister lives between my house and the reunion? YES! I pulled over and called it a night.
Friday, August 15, 2014
Funeral and Eulogy
A difficult day. Our beautiful Virginia was laid to rest.
Eulogy
Virginia -
My cousin, my friend, my supporter and my confidante - what a special person you were. I have so many memories of Virginia. One of the earliest was when she was 3 years old. Virginia had a favorite stuffed animal "clover the cow." She use to follow us around the house - determined to keep up with the big kids with clover the cow in one hand and sucking her thumb. It's an image I'll cherish forever.
As we got older, I remember her playing with the neighborhood kids, running through the woods and watching her interests grow toward drawing, reading books, and her desires to be a writer.
Fast forward several years and Virginia was no longer a child. In fact she was married to Bryen and was having her 1st baby. We instantly reconnected when we found out that we were both pregnant together. Virginia shared so much with me and we became best friends. During our pregancies we swapped stories, laughed about our babies kicking in our bellies and wondered what it would feel like to be a "mom." We found out quickly that we both loved being moms and Virginia loved and adored all her children dearly. She talked about Quniten, Evan and Lillian non-stop mentioning things like Quniten loosing his first tooth, Evans face lighting up when Quniten giggled or danced in front of him when he was a baby. Her excitement about buying everything "purple" for Lillian and how she loved twirling in her dresses.
Virginia was my inspiration - When Virginia was 1st diagnosed with cancer she shared her fears with me but was determined to fight and beat it. I supported her through it and encouraged her as she faced her fears. Three years ago, I was diagnosed with breast cancer and Virginia didn't waste a moment. She was there supporting me 100%, telling me she had faith in my treatments and that the doctors will take great care of me. Those words stayed with me and encouraged me. Unfortunately, Virginia's cancer returned and I was there for her again. She never once said to me "why me?" She always said I'm going to fight this and beat it. In fact, she sent me an email a while back about the Chinese Zodiac Calendar. She said "I'm the Earth Horse" - I keep working on a goal no matter how long it takes. And she fought it hard and long.
I was fortunate to have Virginia in my life and she means so much to everyone. When I think of Virginia I immediately think of a kind, loving, smart, funny, honest, compassionate, amazing woman. She was a daughter, a sister, a niece, a cousin, a wife and a mother. She will be greatly missed but will never be forgotten. Rest in peace my sweet cousin - We love you!
Eulogy
Virginia -
My cousin, my friend, my supporter and my confidante - what a special person you were. I have so many memories of Virginia. One of the earliest was when she was 3 years old. Virginia had a favorite stuffed animal "clover the cow." She use to follow us around the house - determined to keep up with the big kids with clover the cow in one hand and sucking her thumb. It's an image I'll cherish forever.
As we got older, I remember her playing with the neighborhood kids, running through the woods and watching her interests grow toward drawing, reading books, and her desires to be a writer.
Fast forward several years and Virginia was no longer a child. In fact she was married to Bryen and was having her 1st baby. We instantly reconnected when we found out that we were both pregnant together. Virginia shared so much with me and we became best friends. During our pregancies we swapped stories, laughed about our babies kicking in our bellies and wondered what it would feel like to be a "mom." We found out quickly that we both loved being moms and Virginia loved and adored all her children dearly. She talked about Quniten, Evan and Lillian non-stop mentioning things like Quniten loosing his first tooth, Evans face lighting up when Quniten giggled or danced in front of him when he was a baby. Her excitement about buying everything "purple" for Lillian and how she loved twirling in her dresses.
Virginia was my inspiration - When Virginia was 1st diagnosed with cancer she shared her fears with me but was determined to fight and beat it. I supported her through it and encouraged her as she faced her fears. Three years ago, I was diagnosed with breast cancer and Virginia didn't waste a moment. She was there supporting me 100%, telling me she had faith in my treatments and that the doctors will take great care of me. Those words stayed with me and encouraged me. Unfortunately, Virginia's cancer returned and I was there for her again. She never once said to me "why me?" She always said I'm going to fight this and beat it. In fact, she sent me an email a while back about the Chinese Zodiac Calendar. She said "I'm the Earth Horse" - I keep working on a goal no matter how long it takes. And she fought it hard and long.
I was fortunate to have Virginia in my life and she means so much to everyone. When I think of Virginia I immediately think of a kind, loving, smart, funny, honest, compassionate, amazing woman. She was a daughter, a sister, a niece, a cousin, a wife and a mother. She will be greatly missed but will never be forgotten. Rest in peace my sweet cousin - We love you!
Tuesday, August 12, 2014
Help the Pierce Family
As you all know, my beautiful cousin Virginia became an Angel on Saturday. I miss her dearly and I just can't seem to believe that she is gone. I have so many things I want to say to her. So many things I wish I said when I visited a few weeks ago but I thought she was really going to kick cancers ass. She had so many dreams and was so excited to get her life back. Something I can completely understand in so many ways. I wish I could give her one last hug. Just to let her know that I will never forget her. I will always love her and I will always be a part of her husband Bryen and her children: Quinten, Evan and Lillian's lives. I hope she can hear me when I talk to her at night.
All I can do now, is honor her memory, think about all the wonderful things she did, how she enjoyed life and loved her family.
Before Virginia passed away, a fundraiser was set up to help pay for medical expenses. Unfortunately, those expenses are still there. If you can offer any assistance to her family, even if it's $5.00 it would be greatly appreciated.
http://www.youcaring.com/medical-fundraiser/help-the-pierce-family-/194122
All I can do now, is honor her memory, think about all the wonderful things she did, how she enjoyed life and loved her family.
Before Virginia passed away, a fundraiser was set up to help pay for medical expenses. Unfortunately, those expenses are still there. If you can offer any assistance to her family, even if it's $5.00 it would be greatly appreciated.
http://www.youcaring.com/medical-fundraiser/help-the-pierce-family-/194122
Sunday, August 10, 2014
In memory of my loving cousin, Virginia
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| Baby shower time, Quinten is on his way! |
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| Our babies!! We loved getting them together |
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| You have shoes? |
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| Having fun!! |
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| Cody loved getting hugs from Virginia |
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| Hi Quinten |
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| Two arms for two babies |
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| What's Cody got? |
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| Smile for the camera |
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| Quinten and his momma |
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| Family time |
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| Fun with the boys |
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| Love this photo |
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| We love our boys! |
Saturday, August 9, 2014
She's gone
My precious cousin Virginia died tonight at approximately 8:30pm. I'm devastated! Tears are rolling down my cheeks in disbelief. I'm heartbroken and wish I could have been there to say goodbye.
What a beautiful person.
And now she is an angel, with God and is in peace.
I LOVE YOU VIRGINIA!!!!
What a beautiful person.
And now she is an angel, with God and is in peace.
I LOVE YOU VIRGINIA!!!!
Sunday, August 3, 2014
Off to Maryland
When Ken gets an idea in his head, he gets determined and today he wanted to check out some kayak's at Bass Pro Shop in Maryland. Yes, Maryland. There isn't one close by to where we live in Virginia. And surprisingly it's quicker to travel to Maryland instead of driving to Richmond. So 1 hour or so later, Ken and Cody are in heaven. Bass Pro shop to them is like the Coach store is to me...sounds of beautiful music in my ears when I go shopping for hand bags. Oh heck what am I saying, music plays whenever and wherever I go shopping. ha-ha! So as we walked in the store, their eyes lit up with delight.
Ken finally got to the kayak section and wouldn't you know it, they didn't even have the boat in stock that he wants. Such disappointment. He's been searching high and low on the internet for the perfect kayak and drives 1 hour just to check it out only to have his dreams dashed. So we ate dinner, the boys went to Dave and Busters to play video games and I went.....oh the music is playing.....yes, I hear it.......SHOPPING!!!
Of course I grabbed a few things. Someone had to come home with something right?
Ken and Cody were having a blast at Dave and Buster's. He racked up a bit of tickets and was so excited to cash them in when Ken talked him into saving them for the next visit. And Cody agreed.
Fun day with the family. But I'm sure we'll be back.
Ken finally got to the kayak section and wouldn't you know it, they didn't even have the boat in stock that he wants. Such disappointment. He's been searching high and low on the internet for the perfect kayak and drives 1 hour just to check it out only to have his dreams dashed. So we ate dinner, the boys went to Dave and Busters to play video games and I went.....oh the music is playing.....yes, I hear it.......SHOPPING!!!
Of course I grabbed a few things. Someone had to come home with something right?
Ken and Cody were having a blast at Dave and Buster's. He racked up a bit of tickets and was so excited to cash them in when Ken talked him into saving them for the next visit. And Cody agreed.
Fun day with the family. But I'm sure we'll be back.
Saturday, August 2, 2014
OH NO YOU DIDN'T!!!
I just love having my window shades open. Natural light coming in to the house gives me such energy and I love looking outside at all the flowers on my deck. My kitchen table faces a large picture window that looks upon my crepe myrtle, mandevilla and strawberry plants. So as I was feeding Cody in the kitchen, I just happen to look up and I saw a squirel jump from my crepe myrtle to the railing of my deck. He quickly ran toward the mandevilla and jumped down to my poor unsuspecting strawberry plant. He then somehow plucked the biggest, brightest and I'm sure juiciest strawberry from my plant and proceeded to jump back up onto the railing. He then plopped his butt down and with his fuzzy little tail waving back and forth, held that strawberry in his tiny little hands as he ate it, bite by bite. AHHHHHH!!!!!
I ran to my camera bag, grabbed it and quickly changed the lens to SUPER ZOOM!!! I opened my back patio door, walked on my patio and said DROP IT! Did he? No. So I took a photo of him chowing down on my strawberry. Eventually throwing it down as I got closer. Little stinker. And to think, I actually wondered why none of my strawberries were growing this year. Mr. Squirel here found a gold mine.
I ran to my camera bag, grabbed it and quickly changed the lens to SUPER ZOOM!!! I opened my back patio door, walked on my patio and said DROP IT! Did he? No. So I took a photo of him chowing down on my strawberry. Eventually throwing it down as I got closer. Little stinker. And to think, I actually wondered why none of my strawberries were growing this year. Mr. Squirel here found a gold mine.
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